On what was probably her proudest day, she learned
how to write her own name!. And write it she did,
over and over and over. Her excitement was
catching and one look at the beautiful smile and the
shine in her eyes (tears of joy?) and we were proud
with her.
This lady, without any formal training, learned how
to bake the best fancy cookies in the whole world,
vanilla and chocolate in one cookie! Her knitting and
crocheting talents were beautiful works of art; a
bedspread made of hundreds of fancy-patterned
crocheted squares sewed together;
two-toned knit sweaters, and much more. And she
could not read instructions!
Holidays were wonderful times, lots of people, lots of
laughter, lots of love. The family philosophy wasand
still isno one should be alone on an important
day. So they came to Yetta’s house for good food
and friendship. Her accepting nature gave her many
friends; she did not question, she loved people in
spite of their imperfections. And these wonderful
traits were passed down to her children who are
today loving, caring and beautiful people.
How did I know this lady who played such an
important part in my life? She was my aunt, my
Tante Yetta, and I lived with her full time from three
months of age until I was six years old and went back
to live with my natural family. Yetta was the first
person I called "Mom" and her children, though
cousins, were my brothers and sisters. I would go to
visit them for the week-end whenever school was
out. For me it wasn’t a holiday away from school, it
was a holiday to visit my Brooklyn Family. By the
time I was nine years old, I was going from New
Jersey to New York by myself. They gave me a
feeling of self-worth, made me feel important,
inundated me with love and generally gave me the
strength to handle the ups and downs of life.
She, they, are in my thoughts every day.
The Good Life is an amateur journal
from the computer of Estelle Eaton
Tempe, AZ 85282